There are 2 schools of thought regarding these axle nuts. 1 is to tighten the crap out of them, and the other is to tighten them to just a bit more than the factory specs.
I've run into issues that if you use the 3/4" breaker bar and pipe extension, and you get "bubba" to stand on the end of the pipe, that you do get a good axle nut fitment, but you can also crush the bearing. Been there, done that.
I use the process: standard 3/4" breaker bar and only use 1 foot, but not jump on it. Just make sure it's "really" tight". Of course, you also need to exchange both 1/2 shaft assemblies, and both front hubs every 6-8 races as a standard maintenance procedure with all VW's.
I swap out the old ones with the spares that I've been lugging to the track all year, and send the old ones out to get new bearings / seals installed, and have the 1/2 shaft's exchanged, and they become next year's "spares".
I've only had 1 CV failure while on track in over 10 years of racing. I also run a locked front diff, which puts more strain on these parts than an LSD or open diff.